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Only when a female student withdraws from school citing pregnancy as her reason does the system note the event. Abstinence isn't one way to prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, it's the only way, according to Ridgeway High School PTO president Betty Mallott.
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Ridgeway became the first public school in Tennessee to use the program and is entering its third year of participation.
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